Having some trouble with moving on in my life: going to the great Theorist and Psychology Founders to seek help.
Sigmund Freud: I think it a type of sexual suppression in which u have stored that frustration in such a way that it is causing you anguish, lack of joy, and sudden pain and aches diagnosis Hysteria....I also that your death instinct is in play, but I have to have more sessions with u to make a clear diagnosis. But in your stages of development you have developed most of the negative traits in those stages...oral stage: tongue sucking and nail biting...Anal stage: you are a perfectionist, but because of some issues during this stage it comes out as disorganized and messy. Phallic Stage:you craved the attention of your father, but losing in the separation at an early age u have not passed this stage, Latency stage: you sometimes crave the attention from the same sex..but because of defect in the phallic stage of development, you shy away from them and they resent you. The Genital Stage is where u suffer the most: because at this stage you were molested and then had children...u haven't began to be comfortable about your appearance so you seek out attention from the both sexes that you can figure out your sexuality...this is the cause for the heightened feelings of sexual frustration. You need love and marriage that you can feel sexual and have sex. Until then suggest more therapy and revisiting those stages (mentally of course cause you can't go back in age...even though you have the characteristics of a virgin, but the traits of a child)
Carl Jung: let's see I believe that you have an over connection with your masculine side due to the separation of your father at a tender age so therefore because you are familiar with the feminine side in some ways you detest it and you feel that you would like to become closer to the male techniques and feelings, but it is conflicting with your need to be feminine. You also experiencing a type of archetype....when you have come to terms with this then you will be complete.
Abraham Maslow: According to my hierarchy of personal needs you are stuck between two stages: Safety and belonging and Love; its seems that you have achieved a stage which is rare but is becoming more common...u skipped the safety; belonging and love stages and went to the esteem stage and u have almost accomplished it and now your to self actualization... this is the reason that you are having so much trouble with believing that you can do or achieve any real thing, because you have not yet found that sense of security, and love,https://www.facebook.com/michellewgfw now you are trying to complete the Self Actualization stage and its not working cause your not complete. I must say you have to go back and find security and love...
Erik Erikson: It seems that your childhood has been a broken one in some way. In all the stages of development you have developed the negative one. For instance the 1st stage is trust vs mistrust...you have mistrust. Find the reasons for this and you will be complete. Your Psychosocial development is: mistrust, shame and doubt, guilt, inferiority, role confusion (with Carl Jung's diagnosis of feminine vs masculine), isolation (Freud's diagnosis of sexual frustration), Stagnation(Maslow's diagnosis of security and love) despair ( again Maslow's self Actualization) plus your fear of death and not leaving a good legacy (Freud's death instinct).
Karen Horney: Diagnosis neurosis: your unhappy and your seeking out relationships that are good for you. Your looking for someone to make you happy, but your own insecurities and neediness, drives them away. When in a relationship you show signs of clinginess, significant lack of self esteem, and even anger and threatening behavior....your suppressing a childlike anxiety (Jung in separation from father) you have went through all the stages of the neurotic family: Moving Toward People: move toward people in order to seek help and acceptance, striving to feel worthy and can believe the only way to gain this is through the acceptance of others, intense need to be liked, involved, important, and appreciated, often fall in love quickly or feel an artificial but very strong attachment to people they may not know well. which leads to the clinginess and the person leaving...then u enter the stage of Moving Against People: (hostility,bossy character, selfish and cruel) and now your entering in the stage of Moving Away From People: this what your experiencing; asocial behavior and an almost indifference to others. If they don't get involved with others, they can't be hurt by them. While it protects them from emotional pain of relationships, it also keeps away all positive aspects of relationships. It leaves them feeling alone and empty. You need to return to the 1st stage and seek help.
Alfred Adler: Diagnosis inferiority complex: feeling incredibly less important and deserving than others, helpless, hopeless, and unmotivated to strive for the superiority that would make us complete. You being a middle child, but yet the 2nd out of six girls you are in between the pampering stage and neglect stage..the pampered part of you feels ill equipped to deal with these realities, doubt your own abilities or decision making skills, and seek out others to replace the safety you enjoyed as a child. The neglected part of you (could result from the absent father figure) you feel not protected at all from the world and is forced to face life's struggles alone, you fear the world, have a strong sense of mistrust for others and have a difficult time forming intimate relationships. You need to find a role model (mainly a male father image) this person must be dedicated to stand and show you how to face the world and it's issues.
God , Jesus Christ, and The Holy Spirit: all of these theories are true, because of your lack or over compensation of something early on in life, you have developed tendencies to not believe in your own abilities to now walk for me. In doing so you have unconsciously shut us out. You hear the right way, but you confuse it with your own thoughts and fears, that you confuse yourself and do it anyway, or in some cases not do the things in which I tell you are good choices. You are not broken, you just need some minor adjustments. I have told you many times i love you but you believe its not possible, because of all the heart break in your life...heed to the Dr's up above for the theories are from me to help you, but you have to have me to help you, I can be the Father figure you need...and I will show you how a real relationship is to be like. For i am the way the truth and the light and right now your in darkness and your anxiety is causing you great pain and despair. I told you I would never leave you. Trust me....I know what your going through. Don't give up, your on the right road, but you need me to walk it. Find time for me, I don't demand much, it seems that way to you because of the brokenheart you won't allow me to mend. I have to make you into a great Woman of God for my people, but I can't do it if you want ask and believe that i can do it through you. In all your ways acknowledge me Michelle: for you are my gift to this broken world, but I can't fix them if you don't believe. I love you my child: rest and I will fight for you. Your Father in heaven, brother, friend, husband, comforter, and savior.
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